Every time I step foot in her room, the surfaces of her desk, bureau, nightstand, and every shelf in her bookcase feebly call out to me for help, gasping from being buried under so much crap. I looked at her desk this morning and cringed. The majority of it was covered in every color of nail polish conceived in the last five years by Loreal, Maybelline, Revlon, and a host of others. And Scotch tape. Everywhere. Stuck to the top, the sides, underneath...I think she uses it for making lines of color on her nails or something. Meanwhile, my nails are non-existent from picking at it for a good 45 minutes.
|A portion of the collection. I know there's more lurking in the dark corners of the girl's room.|
Looking at the nightmare which is a teenage girl's room (yeah, I know--teenage boys aren't any better...and why do the boys' rooms always smell like Fritos?) this morning made me start thinking of how happy I am that we did not go crazy when buying furniture for our sweet little girl who, when it was time for her "big girl bed" was the perfect image of innocence. Who knew that a face like this:
Could, in only a couple of years, do something like this to her bed:
I like to refer to those as her Sing Sing years, where at the tender age of seven she decided it was fun to carve her name into any surface that was soft enough, kind of like a lifer in prison. That bed didn't stand a chance. Fortunately, we didn't have the desire (nor the deep pockets) to shop for her furniture at Ethan Allen. And now I can simply sigh when I see her name carved into the foot of her bed, or the desk covered in nail polish, rather than go on an all-out bender like my mother did when she saw that my young 3ish-year-old self colored on my Mary-Had-a-Little-Lamb-lamp with markers. Now that is a memory from my youth that I'll never forget. Holy crackamoli, you'd think I had just shaved the cat (I did cut her whiskers once) or set fire to my room (that I did not do). Not that my creative offspring did not get a good long-winded lecture. She has yet to carve her name anywhere since. The nail polish is another story. I'm working on that one.
And, yes, I know the majority of you out there reading this are saying, "Fool, why are you cleaning the girl's room in the first place? Get her to do it herself!" That happens, too. But sometimes even a desk needs a full overhaul. And now she totally owes me. I just need to think of what.